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Proto\u017ee kdy\u017e se rozhodneme s n\u011bk\u00fdm sd\u00edlet sv\u016fj…","datePublished":"2022-07-23","dateModified":"2023-05-18","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7b822bed19dfbc78d1cf42b3649cc2489d12c54b7aef64ae719c01ed9f13d563?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7b822bed19dfbc78d1cf42b3649cc2489d12c54b7aef64ae719c01ed9f13d563?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"anavel.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/romantika_2.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/romantika_2.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/","about":["Vztahy"],"wordCount":447,"articleBody":"Pokud se nach\u00e1z\u00edme v n\u011bjak\u00e9m vztahu mus\u00edme mnoh\u00e9 podstoupit. B\u00fdt ochotni se pro druh\u00e9ho zm\u011bnit a hodn\u011b v\u011bc\u00ed se mus\u00edme nau\u010dit p\u0159ehl\u00e9dnout. Proto\u017ee kdy\u017e se rozhodneme s n\u011bk\u00fdm sd\u00edlet sv\u016fj \u017eivot nen\u00ed to tak jednoduch\u00e9 jak se na prvn\u00ed pohled zd\u00e1. Ka\u017ed\u00fd vstupujeme do vztahu s ur\u010dit\u00fdmi zku\u0161enostmi. M\u00e1me ur\u010ditou v\u00fdchovu, zvyky, povahu. A to ka\u017ed\u00fd \u00fapln\u011b jinou. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u017eijete ve sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed realit\u011b. A proto je n\u011bkdy velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 skloubit to v\u0161e dohromady. To nemluv\u00edm o tom, \u017ee jeden m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dominantn\u00ed, submisivn\u00ed a nebo dva stejn\u00e9ho ra\u017een\u00ed. A to si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee je nejhor\u0161\u00ed kombinace.Ka\u017ed\u00fd mus\u00ed b\u00fdt schopen kompromisu. A nebo se st\u00e1hnout kdy\u017e to situace vy\u017eaduje. Mus\u00edme si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee sice prohrajeme malou bitvu, ale v\u00e1lka bude zachr\u00e1n\u011bna cel\u00e1. A o to tu p\u0159eci jde. Zachovat vztah. Nemus\u00edte p\u0159ece m\u00edt pravdu za ka\u017edou cenu. Ani jeden. Asi nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my pramen\u00ed z toho, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd se na to d\u00edv\u00e1 jen ze sv\u00e9ho \u00fahlu pohledu. A aby se druh\u00fd vc\u00edtil do probl\u00e9mu toho druh\u00e9ho je st\u00e1le v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed vz\u00e1cnost\u00ed. N\u011bkdy bereme komunikaci ve vztahu jako boj. P\u0159itom je to naopak. M\u00e1 to b\u00fdt p\u0159ece spolupr\u00e1ce. V\u017edy\u0165 V\u00e1m jde o jedno. A hlavn\u011b p\u0159ece chcete b\u00fdt spolu. Jinak by jste asi do vztahu p\u0159eci ne\u0161li.Tolerantn\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017eeme b\u00fdt k lidem se kter\u00fdmi nem\u00e1me bl\u00edzk\u00fd vztah. A jeho volby se n\u00e1s skoro nedot\u00fdkaj\u00ed. Ale jakmile je to partner, rodi\u010d nebo d\u00edt\u011b je to pro n\u00e1s mnohem t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed. Co takhle se nau\u010dit n\u00e1zor druh\u00e9ho respektovat? Kolik zbyte\u010dn\u00fdch h\u00e1dek by t\u00edm odpadl? Pokud jsou ale va\u0161e n\u00e1zory a hodnoty tak moc vzd\u00e1len\u00e9 je t\u0159eba p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let. Chceme v\u016fbec v takov\u00e9m vztahu d\u00e1l pokra\u010dovat? Je v\u016fbec n\u011bjak\u00e1 \u0161ance, \u017ee se na n\u011b\u010dem n\u011bkdy shodnete? Pokud jsou v rodin\u011b i d\u011bti je moc d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 jak p\u0159ed sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi budete vystupovat. Nikdy nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9 se druh\u00e9ho sna\u017eit zm\u011bnit. Ono to toti\u017e ani jinak nejde. A nikdy se V\u00e1m to nepovede. To co s\u00e1m nechce ud\u011blat prost\u011b nikdy neud\u011bl\u00e1. Jsme svobodn\u00e9 bytosti. Nechte si proto sv\u016fj prostor a individualitu.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Probl\u00e9my ve vztaz\u00edch","item":"https:\/\/www.anavel.cz\/problemy-ve-vztazich\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]